McFarmer, thanks for all of the good advice. I especially liked the one about asking him to go out with you and define his boundaries. (If you are not a person that even asks about boundaries, then you are probably not a person that respects boundaries!)
I also liked your explanation about offering birds. I had a landowner seemingly shift his demeanor when we offered him lots of doves. I thought we were being thoughtful, since he previously said he liked to eat them. I see now he may have thought we shot over our limit! (Of course, I also understand now why he may have thought that. Our number of shots fired versus number of birds taken was embarrassingly high.)
P.S. On my "job offers" comment, these were not real jobs, but things you could trust teens to do. One time we helped a farmer back a chisel plow(?) into the corner of his barn by hand. Another time a farmer said we could fish in his nice watershed pond if we picked up some trash. He gave each of us a bucket. We came back with two full buckets and he said he didn't know there was that much trash out there. We said we still had a big pile, but could probably finish with 1 or 2 more trips. He said thanks, and that we could come back and fish any time we wanted!
P.P.S. If I ran into you at a party, and you said you were a farmer in XYZ County, then I would probably ask you all of the questions you said NOT TO ASK. If putting your foot in your mouth is a special skill - then I am a skilled and flexible man!