Serous Wildcat, I had a friend for many years. He grew into a control freak. We had a annual get together for many years, long before he got the invite. It became such a problem you can't believe it. If a destination was decided, he would make it a point to leave a day early because he bucked what was decided, saying he would go get us a spot and EVERY TIME he would mysteriously come up with all the camping spots were filled and he had to go to his original location he had wanted. Yet a quick check would reveal open camping spots where we had planned to go. Pretty soon he wouldn't go on our trip anymore and started his own trip and had to find all new people to go with him. We hardly talk anymore. If he couldn't be in control. He wouldn't participate.
Don't you like it when something you started, tries to get taken over by someone else?