Resident or non-resident, the issue comes down to time scouting...residents presumably have the time and opportunity to do more scouting more easily, establish relationships more easily, etc; guys coming from out of state may find that harder to accomplish, so forking over the $ to access land makes some sense, at least early in the hunters career hunting in a far away state. Where I've been hunting, my 28th season coming up, hunters from the nearby "bigger towns" have poor reputations, on average, with the farmers that I know....and I know many farmers. Again, not all of the hunters who come out of cities 20, 30, or 90 miles away have committed the transgressions that the local farmers suspect, but perception is reality in many cases. I'm OK paying more than residents for licenses...no issue there. everything else is just a choice...preseason scouting is a choice...forging relationships with farmers is a choice...reinforcing those relationships is a choice...it all comes down to how important the hunting is to you, whether you live 20 miles away or 450 miles away.
Personally, I enjoy the spring and summer trips out there a lot...just got a call today from a farmer inviting me to his daughters grad party in July...he told me about a young farmer who I know well who had his 1 year old lab disappear a week or so ago...so I called him to offer condolences and check on that situation...while talking to him, he asked if I would make pulled pork for his grooms dinner in August, he knew I was coming to his wedding...I smoked some pork shoulder in May when I was out there and invited a few farm families for supper one night, and told them I would love to cook for any grad parties, weddings, bull sales, etc, if they were interested...I love that stuff! I was elated that this young man asked...I guess they liked my pulled pork! He has already been very hospitable with his land, as has his dad, and his granddad, too. All close in proximity to where I stay, and we have an "open kitchen" during the hunting season...my buddies and I love to cook and host our local farmer friends...frankly, it is as fun as the hunting. I try and make it to all the grad parties, weddings, funerals, etc, that I can attend...usually about 3 per year on average over the past 20 years. This takes time, no doubt, and not every NR hunter can do these things, but it comes down to priorities. The further you travel, the more serious the local farmers realize you are about the hunting, the friendships, etc. Many of them have traveled to my city to visit, too...all in all, fun stuff, and on average, those friendships mean more to me than about any I have.