ranchodeluxe
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Perhaps a little insight to #2,(if you can add more, please do)...
Years ago, farmers virtually were the only ones driving pick-up trucks. Some time back, don't recall where, an acquaintance and I were riding through the countryside. I noticed he would occasionally give a small wave with his index finger , just lifting it off the steering wheel, to passing motorists, but not everyone. After awhile, my curiosity peaked, so I asked him what the incospicuous finger wave was all about. He explained to me in short that you only do it to pick-up trucks, that it was out of respect to the farmer.
I still do when out in farm country, including any farm implement,and tell anyone riding with me about it, that it is the unwritten law of the land. In most rural areas, you'll get the finger wave back. Don't recommend it in urban areas, more likely to get middle finger back.
PS I still pull over if I can for funeral processions and turn on my headlights
Ah yes,the ole one finger wave,I know it well.I wave to everyone,but your friend is correct,it is considered poor manners to not acknowlege another's presence in ranch country.I think it's something held-over from a time when rural folks seldom saw anyone who didn't live in the same house.I remember as a kid staying at the Family ranches in Harding CO,it was a big event to get company,and amongst the grown-ups, simple conversation was a cherished pastime. We kids weren't so easily pacified,though.Our socialization usually was centered around killing,or destroying, something.It was the Sheriff who taught me the one finger wave.He had it down to an artform.