If you get out 4-5 times a month with kids your one of the lucky ones! Wait until they start playing sports. Your 4-5 times a month could turn into 4-5 times a season.
Mine are getting older and more self dependant. So my hunting and fishing days are on the increase again!
But, I wouldn't have traded going hunting or fishing for doing something with the family for all the birds in the world. It only lasts a short while so enjoy it while you can. Even if it means a lot less hunting.
Concentrate on what you like the best. For me it's always been waterfowling. Ever since I was a kid so that's what I do 90 percent of the season. This year however my plans are to quail hunt a little more than I have in the past.