I'm working on it...... When I met my wife she had never met a hunter. She had never eaten wild game. She basically thought it was some kind of a redneck activity that only lowlife backwoods neanderthals did. Then, she had the mistfortune of faling in love with THIS backwoods neanderthal (lol!) so she had to get used to the idea! SInce that time, we've come a long way. I love cooking wild game, and my personal philosophy is that I owe harvested wild animals a dept of gratitude, which I pay by treating them with the respect that they deserve at the dinner table. As a result, some of our fanciest meals are made with wild game, and she moved slowly from refusal to eat it, to a reluctant wild game eater, to an enthusiastic participant in cooking and eating wonderful, tasty, organic wild meats! Two years ago she came along on a few grouse hunts, which I picked on nice bright dry falls days when teh leaves were in full blush of autumn. This served two purposes. SHe realised what a nice activity hunting is (under those conditions anyways! lol!) and she got to see the dog in action, realising that THIS is what she LIVES for. She also got to see me shoot a few grouse, and learned that it is not some easy "slaughter" but actually a very difficult 'fair chase' activity, with each harvested animal being a very had-earned prize! This is basically where we're at now. She has no interest in waterfowling (and I don't blame her - it's not a spectator sport!) but will come along on the finest of fall days for upland hunts. She is not traumatized by the sight of a bird being harvested, and loves to see the dog at work. The thing that we have really not yet overcome is her refusal to have anything to do with guns. As most of you know, the public perception of guns in Canada is quite different from the US public, and it's a real chore for sportsmen here to overcome the "knee-jerk" reaction that guns are these deadly "weapons" that will go off and kill people at time you look at them!
Slowly, very slowly, she is getting used to seeing them handled and used safely and I can see definite improvements in her comfort level around guns. I know my wife well enough not to push the idea of her shooting one. I'm much better off to let her come to it on her own. If she never does, well she never does, that's OK with me. Next month I'm going back "home" to my sister's wedding and will recover my old .22 from my Dad's guncase to bring it home, as well as my old pellet gun (right now, all that I have in the house are 12 gauges and a 30-06, not exactly good "first shoot" guns!). My plan is to invite her along once in a while when I go target shooting, in the hopes that she'll express interest on her own to plink a few tin cans with the pellet gun, then maybe the .22, then.... who knows what the future holds?!
I did help to get my buddy and his wife into shooting/hunting, and watched her shoot her first rooster and first duck over my dog in 2007. Later that season, he managed to shoot his first birds too (she's a much better wingshot than he is! lol!). She's now a very enthusiastic hunter and they spend a lot of time at it. I must admit, I'm a little jealous, but I'm happy for him anyways!
-Croc